A massive risk to take

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It dawned on me over the weekend that I’d “done it.”

Taken a huge risk and it’s now paying off.

9 months ago I remember thinking to myself…

What if no one thinks it’s a good idea? What if it’s a flop and I just get rejected?”

Everyone hates rejection right?

But sometimes you just got to have a crack and back yourself.

And sometimes, like this time, it pays off and in a big way!

The risk I took was reaching out and seeing if 5 other women (who didn’t know each other) wanted to join me on a crazy adventure in New Zealand.

5 days of trekking carrying our own packs and food whilst dealing with the elements.

I knew a few women would be interested, but getting a total of 5 committed was a little daunting.

Fast forward to today and different personalities, stages of life, work commitments and lifestyles have all blended into an eclectic mix of women, that seems to be working for us!

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Fear can be such a strong emotion and the more I’ve felt it in my life, the more I’ve grown to respect it.

And the older I get, the more I realise fear will never go away – it will always be there especially when I want to try something new, or do something again, that I couldn’t do the first time.

It’s a real thing.

But you can’t let it stop you – life is way too short.

Feel the fear and do things anyway, I say.

You never know where it will take you.

Jods x

The simple formula for achieving your goals

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I’ve always followed a simple formula whenever I’ve set out to achieve something in my life.

Little or big achievements, the formula doesn’t change.

Be x Do = Have.

If you want something in your life (Have), then you must have the right attitude, skills & beliefs (Be) and roll your sleeves up to do the work (Do!).

Let’s break it down briefly…

BE…Am I being the right person to achieve this goal? Am I being prepared for training, being disciplined and being diligent in knowing what I have to do next and not leaving things to chance.

DO…Am I doing the right type of work for this goal? If you are training for a marathon, make sure you are running! Running smart, doing intervals, with a few steady distances thrown in and all with the “progressive overload” principle applied.

HAVE… Is the result of the Be x Do. Time and time again when I hit a roadblock with my HAVE, something that’s frustrating or holding me back or maybe thrown me off path, I sit down and have a look at this formula.

Things are happening slower than what I’d like… Do I just need to do more work? Or am I skimping on the work and coming up with a whole lot of reasons why it can’t be done, from a lack of belief? Maybe, something pops up and gets in the way, which I wasn’t expecting…..

Do I need to learn a new skill to overcome this? Or maybe I just need to adjust my attitude towards the unexpected?

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It’s a formula.

So simple and so powerful.

When you break down your formula and apply it to your goals you’ll be amazed at what you learn about yourself.

It can be totally confronting and enlightening all at the same time.

So be prepared with an open mind and excuses parked outside of it.

Be x Do = Have.

Who’d ever think that algebra would be useful?!

Jods x

The one thing to stop worrying about

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I could see she was in the hurt box when I walked past and then heard her quick remark to Tony…. “You know we started early, don’t you?

The woman was training with my beloved – God help her.

And she has done so for years, so she’s not new to Tony, and Tony’s not new to her.

Coming back to Training after a good hurrah over New Years is always hard, but coming back to Training with Tony is harder.

I knew she was stalling him and letting him know loud and clear she was happy to finish the session then and there.

And then Tony responded. “What…. Are you worried that you’ll get too fit?”

Case in point.

In that instant I chuckled.

Don’t you hate it when “they” are right? “They” being your Trainer.

We all do it.

Focus on the hurt.

Wishing it would stop.

Thinking…. I’ve done enough for today… Surely?!

 

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But you know what? There’s always that little bit more inside.

That extra effort, rep, minute, round or lap around the block.

That extra effort is where real change – real results are.

Getting fitter, faster, leaner and stronger only happens with overload – not comfort zone load.

Don’t let that little voice inside of you tell you any lies.

And next time you are in the hurt box, don’t worry…..

You won’t get too fit – so push on soldier!

Jods x

3 little words….

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I had the pleasure of catching up with a wonderful woman and her children on New Years Day for a play in the park, and our conversation quickly turned to the new year, resolutions and goals in general.

She shared something with me that left me utterly intrigued and me wanting to leave right then and there, so I could go do it myself.

She shared with me that she doesn’t do the “normal” write down your goals thing, but she sits down and asks of herself; “What 3 words do I want to FEEL MORE of this year?”

Kinda cool if you ask me.

She spent some time on New Years Eve putting pen to paper and came up with her 3 words that are meaningful and motivating – for her.

And that’s the interesting thing, is that Humans (that’s you and me), are motivated by feelings.

We all want to do stuff, see stuff, get stuff, but ultimately all of this “stuff” in our lives just gives us the feelings we desire.

You want to lose weight, not because of the number on the set of scales, but because of the feelings that you attach to that number.

You want to feel better, happier, more alive, content – whatever the word is for you.

Makes sense?

So rather than just focusing on writing down the typical I WANT X, Y, Z this year, I wrote some of my own words down and thought I’d share them with you.

Here we go.

Brave.  I want to feel more brave. Take more risks. I want to feel the fear and do things anyway.

Strength.  I want to feel more of my inner-strength that laughs in the face of doubt and is soul-nurturing, (not face-slapping) when I’m tired.

Rich.  I want to enjoy richer relationships with those close to me, connect with new folks and feel rich with amazing memories of laughter, connection and meaningful conversation.

But.

Here’s the thing.

To create these words will take effort.

Things are not going to just “happen” without structure, a plan and implementation.

But, when you’ve got the feeling clear from the get-go, it will make it a whole lot easier to implement when the honeymoon period of New Years is over.

So, what about you?2015

What do you want to feel more of in this brand new spanking Year?

Jods x

The Key to Greatness!

greatnessI was invited to a Women’s Business Christmas Lunch last week and took the opportunity to step out of my sweat clothes, wipe off any Vegemite from the kids and step into my serious pants.

They had a speaker, Jen Harwood, who was a bundle of energy and she spoke passionately about Greatness – and how you can create greatness in your life.

She shared her personal story of breakdown to break-through and her own quest for greatness.

Greatness is such a personal “thing” and there is no right or wrong way to define it. What makes me feel great and super awesome, might be boring as hell for you and vice versa.

My own take on it is; do stuff that you love, do it well and do it passionately – and you are well on your way to greatness and feeling fulfilled in life.

The clincher in her Presentation was on the “HOW-To” bit.

How do you set out and achieve greatness – in x, y, or z part of your life?

And her answer: Get your support system plugged into your goal and with other people’s help – you can create and achieve greatness.

I totally agree and totally squirmed (just a little) when she mentioned this and 3 little words.

“Asking for help….” (and god forbid – accepting help when it’s given!)

If you are anything like me asking for help is un-natural – but something that I have learned ask for helpis highly valuable.

Our egos think we can (and should) do it all on our own, but the reality is Human Beings (that is you and me!) are designed for interaction.

We do not survive as a species without it.

Jen spoke about having different people in your life that fulfil different “Roles” that you can lean on for help when it’s needed.

I’m not going to list all of the “Roles” she spoke about (you can read more here), but here’s the Jodie run-down on who you should have in your support system.

You need critics to challenge your commitment and play the devils-advocate – sometimes the glass does end up half-full.

You need experts to short-cut your learning curve and fast-track your results and save you time, energy and money.

You need BFFs to pick you up, dust you on and send you on your way.  You need hugs, we all need more hugs.

You need role models to instil hope – if it’s possible for me, it’s possible for you kinda thing.

And you need to have the courage and wisdom to open your mouth and repeat after me, “Hey, I need a little help here please?”

If that made you squirm, then you know what you need to do 😉

Jods x

Upcoming Events

A bit of an update for you and save the dates…

W.O.D. Comp 29th Nov

images-19Our last W.O.D Comp for all CrossFit Zenergy athletes is being held on Saturday morning 29th Nov from 7am – 8am.

A W.O.D. Comp is just a fun morning of exercise (yes, it can be fun!) with different 3 Events/Workouts for you to compete in.

We’ve decided to have divisions this time round to make sure that everybody joins in, so pop your name down at the Gym next time you are in!

 

Divisions will be:

  • Mens
  • Females
  • Mums
  • Masters (35+)
  • Grandmasters (50+)

Workouts will be released prior to the morning so you can start to get excited about what you’ll be doing!

Christmas Party Fundraiser Fri 5th Dec

Join us on Friday Night the 5th Dec from 6pm – 8pm for some fun, laughs and fundraising.  One of our Members, Maddie Tognini does amazing volunteer work for Open Heart.  This is an organisation that gathers Australian Doctors and Nurses to volunteer their time for heart operations on little ones in less fortunate countries.

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Maddie has travelled twice to Cambodia to be an Emergency Nurse for Open Heart, and we’d love to get behind her and help raise more money for her next trip!

  • Tickets: $10
  • Fun: Games organised by the Trainers….(I hear a ping pong table is being sourced…)
  • RSVP: At the Gym!

***We’ll have beer, wine and a sausage sizzle as well!***

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Steve turns the BIG 30 in December and is super excited about the instant wisdom he’ll gain from hitting the 30’s.  Share the celebration with some birthday punches or birthday burpees! And Steve, it was my pleasure :)

Christmas Timetable

We will be open all throughout Christmas, except for the 3 Public Holidays, Thurs 25th Dec, Fri 26th Dec, and Thurs 1st Jan.

We are reducing the Timetable slightly during the day-time class options during the 2 weeks starting from Monday 22nd December.

Check out the Christmas Timetable – Click Here!

That’s it for this week!

Happy Training!

Jods x

5 Simple Weight Loss Tips

I try hard sometimes to bite my tongue but my brain-to-mouth filter doesn’t always work. :)

weight-loss-pink-sherbert-photography“That is stupid – utterly stupid.” I said shaking my head in disbelief and frustration.

“Why would someone tell her that?!” I continued.

Rewind the conversation and I was chatting with our Trainer, Lyndsay about a new member who just jumped on board and experienced some questionable advice that I clearly disagreed with.

Said Advice, “To lose weight you should eat 900 calories per day.

900 calories is nothing.

900 calories is dangerous.

900 calories is the start of poor brain function, screwing up your metabolic rate and is not sustainable long-term.

The poor woman who did follow this advice experienced extreme lethargy and poor workout performance and of course did not stick to it. She’s now frustrated and confused with “How the hell do I lose this weight?!”

Last week I wrote about listening to the “Experts” around you and now I’m going to challenge that and you.

Just because someone has a Title does not mean they are an Expert!

Listen to the advice you are given and if you are unsure – challenge it, question it and get a 2nd opinion.

Have they done it before?

How did it work for them?

Could there be a better, smarter way?

Who else could I ask about this?

If I’ve had the pleasure of chatting with that woman and was asked for my Advice, this is what I would have said.images-16

  1. Eat small meals of unprocessed foods often (every 3-4hrs).  Unprocessed means out of the ground, not out of a packet.   Your metabolism (the rate at which you burn energy), is like a fire, and a fire that is fed regularly burns long and strong.  A fire that is starved and then dumped on, struggles and can sometimes burnout.   And you need a strong fire to burn through your fat stores efficiently.
  2. Do not cut out fat.  Fat is not your enemy – overeating is.  Unnecessary and unhealthy fats should be eliminated (trans-saturated) but healthy fats should remain. (Think nuts, avocados, eggs and meats.)
  3. WEIGHT TRAIN – lift heavy and I mean heavy.  You should get sore – expect it and recover well with appropriate rest so that your next training session is still performed at a high intensity.
  4. You should feel hungry when you are aiming to “lose weight”.  Learn to deal with it and get excited when your tummy rumbles – it means the plan is working!  (Note – you should feel slight hunger, not dizziness or hunger that affects your normal brain function.)
  5. Keep your treats in! My personal philosophy is not to take away the things that you love as chances are you’ll over-do them when you do eat them which is counter-productive to your goals.   So…keep them in, but reduce them.  Remember food is not “bad” it’s the quantity that is consumed that is questionable. 

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That’s it!

5 simple tips that work.

Now get to work and check in with me in 3-4 weeks time.

Jods

P.S. And yes that means YOU as well! :)

Everything in Moderation

This whole weight loss and fitness journey thing that we thrust upon ourselves can be an evil beast – if you let it.

All consuming, self-depriving and even worse… self-shaming.

I see it happen in real life and a lot on Facebook.

“Eating clean.”

Personally, I didn’t know food could be dirty?

“Cheat days.”

The last I knew cheating happened in school – when you wrote formulas on the back of wooden rulers for Advanced Maths. (Sorry Mum & Dad!)

And even worse, “No [insert banned substance] for 30 days”.

Now you and I both know that abstaining often increases the urge to be an all consuming need, which then results in greater excess consumed than what would have been consumed under “normal” life conditions.

Sometimes I feel like grabbing people and shaking them whilst screaming, “It doesn’t have to be this way!  Have you ever heard of balance?!”

But I guess being balanced doesn’t have the same sexy ring to it…and this whole weight loss thing should be more complicated – right? 7e7596ddacf64449e636c0e5833637c0

Not really…

Not. At. All.

Take the pressure of yourself to change everything overnight and just tweak one small thing.

Commit to always having your “treat” (not cheat) food in small doses – whenever you feel like it. I dare you!

Start moving your body in ways that you love and that feel good for you.

If you’ve been stuck in a place where you’ve adopted the feast or famine mindset than why not take a moment to question how exhausting that can be…

Do you really want to keep going down that path?

I think it’s time for you to blaze a new trail, don’t you think?

Always here to help!

Jods x

Discipline

There is one muscle in our body that will get you the best results of all – if you train it properly.

People ask me about spot-reduction, trimming and toning their but, arms and whatever else and even though doing things the right way is important, knowing this about this muscle in our body trumps any squat workout.

It’s the Kings king, or maybe even the Queen’s, queen. :)

And here’s the catch.

You don’t train this muscle when you are at the Gym.

You train it away from the Gym – when you are at home, at work, out partying.

And like any muscle, the more you train it, the stronger it gets and the easier your next workout will be.

And it’s the most important muscle of all.

And that muscle is your mental discipline.

The flexing, pushing and pulling of following through when you couldn’t give a …..

Yep, that muscle.

We are never taught how to work this muscle to make it stronger, so let me share with you 3 of my flexing exercises for this…

1. Write down your goals (daily) and how good you’ll feel when you get there.

You gotta get past the short term pain in your daily chatter, and start to imagine what it will really feel like to achieve your goal. Without some sort of positive to pull you forward, it’s damn hard to beat that negative nelly in your head!

2. Keep an “evidence journal” of all the good things you did do, obstacles you overcame and opportunities that presented themselves.

This one is all about being mindful and grateful to allow more good things to happen to you.

3. START SMALL. Yes I did just yell at you, and there’s a reason for that. Changing your health is a long term game. You gotta to start chipping away, and start flexing your Discipline Muscle with the right amount of weight for you.

Don’t jump in and start lifting 20kg with the new mental commitment you are going to workout EVERYDAY from now on.

That’s starting way too big – and you and I both know that after Week 3 when life starts to get in the way, you’ll let it.

Start with a 5kg new mental commitment and focus on that.

Run 1kms instead of saying 5kms.

Go to the Gym once a week, instead of saying 5.

Cut alcohol back just one night a week instead of going dry overnight.

Do you get my drift?

Start flexing it a little every day and you’ll feel the power of this muscle for the long haul.

Jods x

Tuning In

It made complete sense as soon as I read it and left me wondering why hadn’t I thought of it sooner!

No fluff, just simple common sense.

I was reading a CrossFit article on Facebook and it was an interview with one of Australia’s most respected Coaches, Matt Swift.

And there was one little golden nugget in the last question directed at him: “Matt, what would you recommend to people when they are checking out CrossFit for the first time?”

In his usual brevity: “Enjoy being a beginner.”gen

Told you it was so simple!

Kids naturally “do this” with anything new I reckon.

Everything new is fun.

There’s no hangups, expectations or negative self-talk.

Just pure excitement with the opportunity to learn and they have fun – they totally enjoy being a beginner at everything!

The first steps.

The first words.

The first bike ride.

Small wins are celebrated with a smile, and failures are met with hands being dusted off and having another go – straight away.

They aren’t worried about any on-lookers and they actually encourage it!

“Look at me Mum, Look at me Dad!”

How cool is that?!

They are too involved in themselves and in the learning, to worry about what others are thinking.

And that’s where the focus should be – on tuning in, not tuning out.

On how we feel about ourselves with our effort – not the result and on our progress, no matter how small.

On enjoying the process and not rushing towards the outcome.

Is it time to tune in for you?

Jods